About Children's Collaborative

The Children’s Collaborative for Healing and Support, in partnership with the New York Life Foundation, works to enable the identification of children who have experienced the loss of a parent or caregiver and connect them to appropriate supports.

There is an epidemic of hidden pain in America. Nationwide, one in 14 children will lose a parent or caregiver to death before turning 18.

In 2021 alone, more than 1,100 children a day experienced the death of a parent.* This cruel pain impacts the population with the least capacity to understand and cope with it. The consequences of inaction are severe. Children who experience parental loss are at a higher risk of depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress symptoms, dropping out of school, less academic success, lower self-esteem, economic turmoil from housing and food instability, and engaging in risky behaviors.

By strengthening the system to identify and support these children and families, we will be helping all children and families who have experienced loss.

Who We Are

In the wake of profound loss, children often find themselves navigating a world forever changed. Each day, over 1,100 children in the U.S. experience the death of a parent or caregiver—a staggering reality that underscores the urgent need for compassionate, coordinated support. 

Recognizing this critical gap, the New York Life Foundation took decisive action. Through visionary leadership and a $1 million grant, they partnered with the Children’s Collaborative for Healing and Support to pioneer a first-of-its-kind initiative aimed at identifying bereaved children and connecting them with essential resources. This collaboration has laid the groundwork for a structured, sustainable framework that ensures grieving children are no longer overlooked but are instead embraced by a network of care.

Launched in 2021, the Children’s Collaborative emerged from a comprehensive analysis of schools, nonprofits, faith organizations, and hospital systems. This assessment revealed a fragmented approach to identifying and supporting children who have lost a parent, leading to underutilized resources and unmet needs . In response, the Collaborative united a diverse coalition—including educators, counselors, funeral directors, faith leaders, and private sector partners—to form a cohesive support system.

A pilot program in Utah exemplifies the initiative's impact. By integrating bereavement identification into school enrollment forms and leveraging community partnerships, the program has proactively reached out to grieving families, offering them tailored support services. This model not only addresses immediate needs but also sets a precedent for nationwide replication, aiming to transform how communities respond to childhood bereavement. 

The collective efforts of the New York Life Foundation and the Children’s Collaborative signify more than just organizational collaboration—they represent a societal commitment to healing.

By systematically identifying bereaved children and providing them with comprehensive support, we foster resilience and hope, ensuring that no child has to grieve alone.As we continue to build and expand these networks of care, we move closer to a future where every grieving child is met with understanding, support, and the promise of healing.

Our Work

The Children’s Collaborative, in partnership with The New York Life Foundation, is working to bring hope and healing to young people who have lost a parent or caregiver.

Identify

We will utilize data systems to identify children who have lost a parent using birth, death, and school system data on an ongoing basis

Connect

We will develop durable support networks of local organizations, local/state/federal government resources, and other community partnerships

Support

We will work with local partners to families with those support networks so that they have access to resources along their grief journey.
* “CBEM Reports.” Judi’s House. 1 Mar. 2023, judishouse.org/research-tools/cbem/cbem-reports/.

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